Last night as we were laying in bed, Ana remarked how it seems that lately Ben doesn't give hugs or kisses much anymore. Ana was usually the main recipient of PDA from Ben and I was probably 3rd, 4th or 5th on the list. The truth is that lately,Ben hasn't given us many hugs and kisses, but he sure loves on our two cats, Husker and Lola whenever he gets the chance. In fact, Husker our male cat taught Ben the feline way of giving kisses by rubbing up against him , lowering his head and nuzzling his nose against him. Well, while Ben has given kisses the traditional way, he more often will lower his head against someone and rub against them. I'm ok with it because all I need is a smile from Ben to melt my heart, but I think Ana would like more lovin from him. As most people know when it comes to young kids, they go from one stage to another rather quickly. Ana says right now Ben is going through a stage where he thinks Daddy is cool and no one else matters. I don't know about that but I do know that no matter what is going on, when Mommy comes into view Ben has this special smile that just lights up the whole room and she is the only one who makes him react this way. I hope he always feels that way towards his Mom and I will do my best to make sure he holds his Mom in a special light that all Moms deserve. But, for right now, Ben seems to love his cats more than his parents. :)
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Don't worry, it's a phase. When Aaron was one, we had to book a separate plane seat for him. When the airline rep said we could save money by having him sit on our laps, Aden explained, "My son doesn't like to cuddle." (The rep sighed, "Sounds like my husband.")
Point is, I clearly remember when Aaron didn't want to be held or hugged. It was part of his new-found mobility and independence. Now that he's two, I feel like the human high chair and stroller again.
Seriously, enjoy your freedom while it lasts :)
I love the pics and videos. I cannot believe how old he is looking. He totally has that 3 or 4 year old look to him! Neck injury...please that's gonna be the least of your worries! :0)
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